Fears

People have a lot of fears. They are afraid of many things: other people, loneliness darkness, etc. people acquire their fears in childhood and can’t get rid of them all their lives. Fears haunt us everywhere. Even the bravest people have their fears. I think that these people have even more fears than all other people, but they hide them skillfully. One of the most widespread types of fear is fear of the dark. People begin to fear darkness in childhood and preserve this fear when they become grown-ups. Fear of the dark is closely connected with the fear of uncertainty. When we appear in a dark room, we experience horror, fright, panic, etc. Even if we understand that there is nothing to fear, we can’t cope with it and then comes understanding that nothing has changed since our childhood. We still have a lot phobias and fears. To cope with fear is the most difficult task? Because this is one of the most ancient feelings and it is hidden deep within our subconsciousness. However, practice shows, that it is quite possible, as it is impossible to experience constant fear all the time. If you want o cope with your fears, you must try hard. You must go to those places, which you are afraid of. You must remain in the dark purposefully. Thus you will be able to fight your fears and become brave.

Fear is familiar to all people in the earth. It is an extreme emotion which makes us able to accomplish feats. Fear has big eyes – a famous proverb says. Though fear is always associated with negative experience, it can also be called a driving force of progress. Fear is very useful. It is closely connected with the instinct of self-preservation. This is one of the most vital instincts, which protects us from premature death. Fear is not feeling which should be eradicated. If you have no fear, it means that either you are fearful yourself or you are a fool. Yes, complete absence of fear is a sign of stupidity and short-sightedness. However, there are cases when fear is unnecessary and superfluous. This mostly refers to easily frightened and fearful people. These people are afraid of everything. They lose many times in their lives because their fear is always seen and it becomes clear that their fear is the key to manipulation. That is why these people suffer much in their lives. The matter is that if you fear someone, your fear makes your offender even crueler. You make him cruel yourself by your emotions. The more fear is in your eyes, the more cruel is your offender. Remember it and always try to hide your fear. Never demonstrate that you are afraid of your offender to him. Of course, it is difficult to have a resolute look if you lose heart. However, there is no choice in this situation. Fear fetters you and makes you extremely vulnerable and indecisive.